I am a person dats so interested in eriting except my own studies so wenever possible i'd like 2 observe wut ppl doing, n y dey r acting lidat either in behaviour or attitude. sum ppl r very easy 2 be fren wif, u can easily start a conversation wif dem, but u actuali wil never / seldom get their personal info easily. sum ppl r so hard 2 disclosed demself, but wen dey rily fren wif sumbody, dey wil tell eriting without keeping a secret.
i was chatting wif a fren long b4 dis post n it was like WOW wen i discover dat wut i've been guessing all along is actuali very accurate. i oso dunno y ppl keep asking me izit he or she do dis / dat, where i rily hav no idea at all. den frm all dis kinda question i discover many secrets XD mayb ppl ting i'm very 8 n noe all the gossips, dats y dey come n ask me, but i actuali get all dis news frm dem instead :p
sum secrets r meant 2 be kept so i wil not review it here or sumwhere else, but i didnt ask doesnt mean i dunno... coz i noe sum ppl tot their secrets r safe, but actuali the 1 dat dey share their secret wif oso share wif sumbody else, so if u wana keep ur secrets, leave it 2 urself or go tell a dead ppl instead.
frm my past experience in Pembimbing Remaja Sekolah n a textbook of interpersonal communication, u can observe a person attitude in their speech n their action, den u can slowly uncover their true face, i hate 2 discover dat sum ppl r acting, i dont mean myself didnt act in front of ppl but at least act properly, if not u'r jz a shit.
i'm very happy in my conversation wif sum frens dat i tot not very closely related 1, sumhow dey show a large amount of trust on me n share alot of things, wen a person told me dat i noe ur values r way abov others wen she told me her past events, i feel proud XDDD
3 months away frm leaving University if eriting is on course, gonna miss all dis years, jz like missing 2ndary school so much...
2012年2月28日星期二
2012年2月20日星期一
Jealous妒忌 :(
wen we heard sumting abt jealous, 4 me its actuali represent the feeling of inferior 2wards other ppl. there is other words like envy n admire, wen we said admire of sumbody, den its jz dat we hope dat we may possess sumting dey hav, but wif jealous means dat we'r actuali feel unhappy wen sumbody hv sumting dat we wan but dun possess.
my best fren since form 3 told me dat he actuali feeling jealous n inferior wen go 2 our others fren CNY party, bcoz we're all studying but he ad at work since form 6. i told him dat now ppl dun rate ur qualification jz rate how much u earn n wut property u hv, i console him dat after i graduated i owe ppl 50k ad, so he is practically more rich den me by 50k, plus now he ad own a car.
coming bac 2 dis blog which i hv saved but not completed until recently, i try 2 rewind my days since den n analyse how many times did i admire, envy n jealous of ppl since CNY. purposely doing dis 4 a worthy oldfren :-)
1st: ENVY羡慕: after CNY, i came bac frm hometown n find out dat my housemate has bought a Gen2, althou it is 2nd hand 1 but stil nice aniway, he even change a new SAMSUNG GALAXY NOTE!!! i had been fighting 2 control my spending instinct 4 a Galaxy S2, but decided 2 spend it on my LEGO (which is my main hobby n it will increase or maintain its value over time), plus i can stil accept my Apple 3GS speed n function. is doing sum financial planning wif Public Mutual recently n a car loan is not far away :(
2nd: ADMIRE崇拜: b4 CNY over, i'm having gathering here n there n met sum successful fren (at least in my view). my fren who work in sales r earning alot of $$, his boss even gv him a company car, he chose a TOYOTA Vios, althou not under his name, but wen he drove the car 2 go meet us i think most of our 2ndary skulmates r so admired. den another fren jz finish his Biotech degree frm Australia!!! dis is so much difference btween myself n him, coz i oso taking Biotech but he rily spend a fortune on an Aussie cert. but i din felt envy or jealous at all coz its jz his luck, coz he got a wealthy father.
3rd: JEALOUS妒忌: i din hav ani jealous event happen recently but i do think of all past events, finally i come out wif a gal dat i like is in a relationship wif a guy, but dats rily a long time ago! i'm like cursing dem eriday c wen wil dey break off! hahaha! dis is definitely a good jealous example XDDD
ders rily many things dat we can get jealous, sum ppl even compare demself wif own brother sister. things like ppl hav more money, more girlfrens, no nid study can get good result is rily small cases. sumtime i ting woman rily can jealous on aniting, so it is BEST not 2 comparing dem wif ani living or non-living items, all of dem wil jealous but jz not showing it.
i feel happy dat wen i review my life dat i dun rily jealous of ppl, dats mean i hv a reasonable happy life or i'm jz positiv thinking. however i can say ppl do alwiz envy or jealous abt others. sumtime i oso cant understand y ppl wil jealous their frens, until a point dat dey start blackmail dem, actuali dis all is nonsense 1 laa. der wil alwiz b sum1 better den ourselves, if we dun Love ourself n respect u own jz 4 who n what u r, ders actuali no point in ur life. coz u wil alwiz b unhappy.
as 4 ppl dat alwiz let others jealous, i wana congratulates u all!!! coz u r definitely a better person den the rest of dos losers :p haha! i duno y ppl wil gossips dat i hav girlfren d but stil so fren wif other gals, my gf oso not complaining(or she doesnt noes :D)... rumors rily can came out of nowhere n i can oni said不招人忌是庸才!
haha, dis sem is gonna end real soon n all of us will officially enter into the Jungle! a place where oni the best suited wil survives! good hunting eribody, althou sum ppl i rily dislikes but stil wil wish ya'll all the best! u get my meaning XD
my best fren since form 3 told me dat he actuali feeling jealous n inferior wen go 2 our others fren CNY party, bcoz we're all studying but he ad at work since form 6. i told him dat now ppl dun rate ur qualification jz rate how much u earn n wut property u hv, i console him dat after i graduated i owe ppl 50k ad, so he is practically more rich den me by 50k, plus now he ad own a car.
coming bac 2 dis blog which i hv saved but not completed until recently, i try 2 rewind my days since den n analyse how many times did i admire, envy n jealous of ppl since CNY. purposely doing dis 4 a worthy oldfren :-)
1st: ENVY羡慕: after CNY, i came bac frm hometown n find out dat my housemate has bought a Gen2, althou it is 2nd hand 1 but stil nice aniway, he even change a new SAMSUNG GALAXY NOTE!!! i had been fighting 2 control my spending instinct 4 a Galaxy S2, but decided 2 spend it on my LEGO (which is my main hobby n it will increase or maintain its value over time), plus i can stil accept my Apple 3GS speed n function. is doing sum financial planning wif Public Mutual recently n a car loan is not far away :(
2nd: ADMIRE崇拜: b4 CNY over, i'm having gathering here n there n met sum successful fren (at least in my view). my fren who work in sales r earning alot of $$, his boss even gv him a company car, he chose a TOYOTA Vios, althou not under his name, but wen he drove the car 2 go meet us i think most of our 2ndary skulmates r so admired. den another fren jz finish his Biotech degree frm Australia!!! dis is so much difference btween myself n him, coz i oso taking Biotech but he rily spend a fortune on an Aussie cert. but i din felt envy or jealous at all coz its jz his luck, coz he got a wealthy father.
3rd: JEALOUS妒忌: i din hav ani jealous event happen recently but i do think of all past events, finally i come out wif a gal dat i like is in a relationship wif a guy, but dats rily a long time ago! i'm like cursing dem eriday c wen wil dey break off! hahaha! dis is definitely a good jealous example XDDD
ders rily many things dat we can get jealous, sum ppl even compare demself wif own brother sister. things like ppl hav more money, more girlfrens, no nid study can get good result is rily small cases. sumtime i ting woman rily can jealous on aniting, so it is BEST not 2 comparing dem wif ani living or non-living items, all of dem wil jealous but jz not showing it.
i feel happy dat wen i review my life dat i dun rily jealous of ppl, dats mean i hv a reasonable happy life or i'm jz positiv thinking. however i can say ppl do alwiz envy or jealous abt others. sumtime i oso cant understand y ppl wil jealous their frens, until a point dat dey start blackmail dem, actuali dis all is nonsense 1 laa. der wil alwiz b sum1 better den ourselves, if we dun Love ourself n respect u own jz 4 who n what u r, ders actuali no point in ur life. coz u wil alwiz b unhappy.
as 4 ppl dat alwiz let others jealous, i wana congratulates u all!!! coz u r definitely a better person den the rest of dos losers :p haha! i duno y ppl wil gossips dat i hav girlfren d but stil so fren wif other gals, my gf oso not complaining(or she doesnt noes :D)... rumors rily can came out of nowhere n i can oni said不招人忌是庸才!
haha, dis sem is gonna end real soon n all of us will officially enter into the Jungle! a place where oni the best suited wil survives! good hunting eribody, althou sum ppl i rily dislikes but stil wil wish ya'll all the best! u get my meaning XD
2012年2月16日星期四
The Curse of Valentinus :(
Valentine's day is located on every FEB 14th 2 celebrate love. the name came frm Christ saint Valentinus, n called St Valentine's day. suppose he is sumbody who r HEAVILY in love or the saint or angel dat gv LOVE? or he jz simply created the day?
but in present day, ppl jz noe dat dis day is a day dat couple must go out celebrate 2gether, xchange gifts n jz do all u can 2 live up 2 dis most romantic day of the year. as usual, the latest Valentine's day cost me more den a hundred bucks, which is consider normal compared 2 past expenditure. 4 me, all dis kinda days (father mother lover n wutsoever) is jz an event ppl created 2 earn money, so y we all gonna spend money jz 2 show dat we love sum1? i ting now ppl (especially WOMAN) r evaluating a man's love by the value of their presents n sum of money spend on dem.
y? as i can gv an example, if a guy spent time 2 make a present himself, which cost little money but alot of hard work, but do dis little present hav a comparable effect on a branded watch? plus Roses? plus 5 star hotel Valentine's dinner?
i can say most gals wil ting NO! but nearly all of dem won't admit so! den u can go surf around Facebook, u'll find out most posts is frm female who received a RESPECTABLE amount n value of presents, n very few who wil write hav a simple dinner wif my BF, thank you so much. y? no presents? no money? no thanks!!!
as 4 myself, i never gv aniting on Valentine's day, except 4 a meal. but i wil spend on our anniversary coz dat day is the day dat we start our relationship, which at least serve sum purposes. but dis year i get a surprise ... frm u c the "..." means dat dis surprise is more 2 shocked den impressed.
as the curse of Valentinus may resemble sumting round in shape n hollow in centre, u can guess dat?! den u stil gonna act happy althou u'r not... dats the way 2 maintain a relationship, act as much as u can wen the situation required the most!!! wut i dun like is the purpose of dis presents, i noe frm 1st instant dat dis wil b a curse dat pronounce like: i'm SERIOUSLY in love wif sumbody n not available. i duwan 2 bliv wut i ting is true but y she 1 me 2 wear it all the time while herself is not??? dis is a declaration of ownership laa! EASY!!!
as V day jz passed n i review my relationship wif her, i wonder y gals alwiz change their requirement n ask their bf 2 bcome better n better? wen demself r not improving thou... my frens dat is in love since upper 6 jz break off few months ago, ending a 4 years relationship jz like mine(going 2 b 4 years).
4 sum1 like me, a pure GEMINI dat r so playful n flirty(yes i admit) 2 b wif sum1 4 so long n stay loyal, i kept my promise, but where is urs? i rily felt let down wen i ask u dis question, u said i promise 2 wait u until 28. ok, so u wont change ur lifestyle n attitude until the deadline is near, but u stil 1 me 2 do dis do dat.
i found out dat i have been cheat 4 so long, althou ppl may doubt it, but i rily love u. dats y i stil let u cheat, but how can sum1 like me stay like dis 4ever? u can force sumbody do sumting dey dun like but deep inside did dey rily can cheat demself too, it is a NO. i may wear the curse but i NEVER wil let the curse 2 get on me.
but in present day, ppl jz noe dat dis day is a day dat couple must go out celebrate 2gether, xchange gifts n jz do all u can 2 live up 2 dis most romantic day of the year. as usual, the latest Valentine's day cost me more den a hundred bucks, which is consider normal compared 2 past expenditure. 4 me, all dis kinda days (father mother lover n wutsoever) is jz an event ppl created 2 earn money, so y we all gonna spend money jz 2 show dat we love sum1? i ting now ppl (especially WOMAN) r evaluating a man's love by the value of their presents n sum of money spend on dem.
y? as i can gv an example, if a guy spent time 2 make a present himself, which cost little money but alot of hard work, but do dis little present hav a comparable effect on a branded watch? plus Roses? plus 5 star hotel Valentine's dinner?
i can say most gals wil ting NO! but nearly all of dem won't admit so! den u can go surf around Facebook, u'll find out most posts is frm female who received a RESPECTABLE amount n value of presents, n very few who wil write hav a simple dinner wif my BF, thank you so much. y? no presents? no money? no thanks!!!
as 4 myself, i never gv aniting on Valentine's day, except 4 a meal. but i wil spend on our anniversary coz dat day is the day dat we start our relationship, which at least serve sum purposes. but dis year i get a surprise ... frm u c the "..." means dat dis surprise is more 2 shocked den impressed.
as the curse of Valentinus may resemble sumting round in shape n hollow in centre, u can guess dat?! den u stil gonna act happy althou u'r not... dats the way 2 maintain a relationship, act as much as u can wen the situation required the most!!! wut i dun like is the purpose of dis presents, i noe frm 1st instant dat dis wil b a curse dat pronounce like: i'm SERIOUSLY in love wif sumbody n not available. i duwan 2 bliv wut i ting is true but y she 1 me 2 wear it all the time while herself is not??? dis is a declaration of ownership laa! EASY!!!
as V day jz passed n i review my relationship wif her, i wonder y gals alwiz change their requirement n ask their bf 2 bcome better n better? wen demself r not improving thou... my frens dat is in love since upper 6 jz break off few months ago, ending a 4 years relationship jz like mine(going 2 b 4 years).
4 sum1 like me, a pure GEMINI dat r so playful n flirty(yes i admit) 2 b wif sum1 4 so long n stay loyal, i kept my promise, but where is urs? i rily felt let down wen i ask u dis question, u said i promise 2 wait u until 28. ok, so u wont change ur lifestyle n attitude until the deadline is near, but u stil 1 me 2 do dis do dat.
i found out dat i have been cheat 4 so long, althou ppl may doubt it, but i rily love u. dats y i stil let u cheat, but how can sum1 like me stay like dis 4ever? u can force sumbody do sumting dey dun like but deep inside did dey rily can cheat demself too, it is a NO. i may wear the curse but i NEVER wil let the curse 2 get on me.
2012年2月8日星期三
Pre season. Futsal league season 2.
jz came bac frm futsal 1st frenly wif another opponent in our league, won slightly but i'm stil very happy, coz the team we played against is the most Lan Si team in UTAR, wenever i play dem its jz gv me dat xtra buzz :D
saw my ex teammate at the sport complex, ting he's playing futsal wif other ppl, feel sorry coz we technically(actuali) kick him out of the team, but sum ppl jz do things too easily, den make ppl dat r serious felt let down. all dat matters is dat we stil remain frens, sumtime wen we go 2 work, even we kenot work wif our colleague we stil maintain our frenship, which happen on my relationship wif my ex housemate, she intern wif 2gether but i jz damn hate her wen work.
work, study n play is wat we spend most of our time on, so serious in dis matters is very normal. but sumtime ppl may b too serious, n spoilt other ppl mood. i was once adviced by a fren dat sumtime i too serious ad den it'll make dem feel pressure, so wenever i play sports which is categorized as play 4 fun, i rily play as relax as possible, so as 2 make sure eribody feel happy.
althou i seem like take things too easily in my life (eg: study), but i alwiz gv my best wen it matters. i jz gone thru too many things since secondary skul, which make eriting happen in Uni look very simple 2 me. stil feel bad bcoz we din ask our ex teammate 2 join us in futsal again, but will repay in other ways.
study hard, work hard n most importanty play hard! sumtime i oso realised i'm not serious enuf, mayb i can achieve more wif xtra effort, definitely apply in study. but thats life so short 2 b waste on study!!! n certainly not on pretending 2 be sumbody else.
saw my ex teammate at the sport complex, ting he's playing futsal wif other ppl, feel sorry coz we technically(actuali) kick him out of the team, but sum ppl jz do things too easily, den make ppl dat r serious felt let down. all dat matters is dat we stil remain frens, sumtime wen we go 2 work, even we kenot work wif our colleague we stil maintain our frenship, which happen on my relationship wif my ex housemate, she intern wif 2gether but i jz damn hate her wen work.
work, study n play is wat we spend most of our time on, so serious in dis matters is very normal. but sumtime ppl may b too serious, n spoilt other ppl mood. i was once adviced by a fren dat sumtime i too serious ad den it'll make dem feel pressure, so wenever i play sports which is categorized as play 4 fun, i rily play as relax as possible, so as 2 make sure eribody feel happy.
althou i seem like take things too easily in my life (eg: study), but i alwiz gv my best wen it matters. i jz gone thru too many things since secondary skul, which make eriting happen in Uni look very simple 2 me. stil feel bad bcoz we din ask our ex teammate 2 join us in futsal again, but will repay in other ways.
study hard, work hard n most importanty play hard! sumtime i oso realised i'm not serious enuf, mayb i can achieve more wif xtra effort, definitely apply in study. but thats life so short 2 b waste on study!!! n certainly not on pretending 2 be sumbody else.
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