2012年3月11日星期日

Flirtationship.

     i saw dis word on FB, flirtationship is use 2 describe a relationship beyond frenship while stil havent reach a relationship status. dis is wut i enjoy the most wen i'm stil a single!!! while we can have a flirtationship or as much as u can wen u r single, dos dat r in a relationship r morally forbidden 2 do so.

     flirtationship is lk a process 2wards building a more intimate n interdependent relationship, so wen a person dats in a relationship r having flirtationship at the same time, its abit lk cheating on ur other half. managing interpersonal relationship is hard 2 master but at the same time it is stil important in our future, coz at work a person wif low ability but high socializing skill wif ppl r more preferable by colleague n employer.

     recently i hav a few chat session wif a fren dat i jz add in FB, her behaviour r highly suspicious n indicate dat she's probably wont b a very good or loyal gf, or at least she din love her bf very much. 1 time i post a comment on her status, i rily dun understand y she wil reply me in chatbox, coz usually we reply status's comment bac at the status column. mayb her bf get jealous easily n she jz wana avoid conflict wif her bf, so she reply me in chatbox?

     another time she was alone in home, den suddenly tell me she's very hungry, summore said duwan eat alone. i dun wana (over confident n ting the world revolve around me) but i did feel dat dis gal is not as good as she looks. during my time in UTAR i've been thru n saw many cases of gal wif bf jz bcoz dey needed 1, not bcoz of dey love dem.

     the advantage of flirtationship is dat during dat time the ppl involve can rily get 2 noe each other more n try 2 understand wut he or she rily intended. althou we stil can end a relationship wen we discover sumting was terribly wrong.

     the theory of flirtationship is dat we can actuali treat the other person as our partner but its not official, u can withdrawn frm it anitime, but its suck wen the other half r oso flirting wif others at the same time. My advice: go flirt wif another person, its fair enough!

     gals r rily hard 2 understand, wen dey say duwan or nevermind, actuali dey wan it but dey said no jz 2 c ur reaction, however apologize n lots n lots of praise r alwiz welcome!!!

How 2 determine ur importance for a guy/gal:
1. the amount of time dey willing 2 spend for u.
2. topics of conversation (degree of disclosure)
3. the respond dey give frm wut u said (if dey tk ur words seriously, u hv a chance)
4. physical interaction (only apply on gals, coz guys sure wil touch eri gal if dey got the chances XD)
5. if dey do sumting dey dun lk jz bcoz of u, den congratulates! u r half way thru.

ps: as degree of importance may correlate 2 ur success in a flirtationship, but der is alwiz sum1 better for u n for her, however the forest is big enuf 4 eribody, try harder nxt time if u fail, practice make perfect.

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